Let’s be honest from the start: being single sucks. There is the loneliness, the useless dates, the every day reminders of it, whatever it is to show up at a party without a plus one or the unsolicited comments of anyone who feel the need to remind you “you are not getting younger, you know?”, the mix platter starter you can’t share, all the destinations you wish you could see but “not like that”, the pressure of making grand children, the wedding’s invitations of your University peers. It really is no fun.
If you are reading this, you are probably a single woman who feel like she has tried everything to be in a relationship with a man. You listened to your friends and family advice, you went on blind dates, you attended more parties that you wanted to, you did this workshop on “How to attract the man of your dream in 3 days”. So much so that you don’t know what to do anymore…
That’s ok most of the time, you can handle the sadness that occasionally grows into you at the end of the day, but, recently you experienced a “one time too much”, whatever it was this date you should have never go to, this guy who ghosted you or this discussion with your sister who felt the need to tell you “you should really settle down now”.
You are pretty tired and frustrated about your situation. You have enough. And in your confusion you know one thing: you can’t continue like that anymore.
What if I told you: you can be a happy woman whether you are in a relationship or not?
Yes, you can be more balanced and attract more joy in your life- whatever is happening in your love life!
Spoiler alert: it doesn’t mean that we are not going to talk about relationships-cause believe me, we will!
Talking about that, what a better way to start working on this than imagining what your ideal couple could look like? In order to help, you can download my workbook “25 coaching questions to help you visualize the couple you want to create” below:
We could be a great fit if…
♕ You don’t like being single but…
♕ …if you have to be honest you have rarely been happy in a relationship
♕ Your relationships have often (all the time?) being complicated
♕ You have a general feeling of being stuck
♕ You are looking for something new and fresh, for a bit more life around you
If so, I imagine you would love to…
♕ Stop suffering from being single
♕ Make dating fun and light for you
♕ Shush the constant commenting around your love life
♕ Focus on finding “the” relationship instead of “a” relationship
♕ Find a way through all of that that works for YOU
♕ Shake things up a bit!
We might like each other a lot if…
♕ You are friendly and have a good sense of humour- you even laugh about yourself sometimes
♕ You like to get perspective on things
♕ You are a fair person with a good sense of ethic
♕ You are willing to do everything for subjects that matter to you
♕ You are curious and open to know
♕ You are hopeful that you can change things
Sounds like you? You probably want to check for more here or book a free consultation call with me: